July 2012
2 posts
Anonymous asked: i'm 16, i've never had sex and i just want to do it to get the first time out of the way, i have never thought of sex as a big deal, i just want to have sex with some one i don't know very well. do you think i should just wait until i'm in a relationship?, or not.
Anonymous asked: i kind of really need you right now, please reply? xox
May 2012
7 posts
Anonymous asked: no one ever tells you what they get out of your advice, but thankyou!! i just read mine, i dont know how to say which one i was.. the most recent about cheating and such.. but wow thwnkyou so much i cant even expain, you just made things instantly better ^-^ im going to go away, do those things you told me, just focus on the happy things i have. and i can just tell i will be alright :) why you so...
Anonymous asked: *continuation* few days later i went out drinking with my friend, and we made out.. then later on and i decided that i just needed to break up with my boyfriend and end it all, so i was going to next time i sw him, but then i found out he cheated on me so i used that as an excuse and broke up with him over fb. i know thats bad but ugh! i just dont know if i should tell him i cheated on him, or...
Anonymous asked: okey so, this isnt even that bad, and compared to some of the stuff you get on here i feel like some overexagerated bitch.. but ive posted on here before and your advice is just amazing, so here it goes! i had a boyfriend, we dated, things were alright, then things got bad, he blocked me, but said he still wnted to date me, we fightes alot and the relationship was judt generally shit. i started...
Anonymous asked: can i just say that you are so beautiful, even if the picture on the right was of a mole. i would still call you beautiful, for the 'answers' you give to these people in need, you ask nothing back, just the fact that you give even a second of your day to make theres makes me smile, and have hope in humanity. you are what every mother should show there child the moment they're born...
Anonymous asked: i got cheated on and i took her back but then i told her the truth of what i was hiding which was that i was talking to my ex boyfriend almost the whole relationship and she only cheated on me once and honestly i dont know what to do i don't think i did anything bad but should i be with her?
Anonymous asked: My problem is my boobs. I'm only 14, and they're around 10E. I'm really insecure about them, they hurt loads, they make my back hurt and people always tell me I have huge boobs. I feel like its the first thing they notice and it makes me really uncomfortable. I'm a really insecure person so I don't like attention being drawn to me. I don't really know what to do to be...
Anonymous asked: I have social anxiety, anxiety, severe depression and problems with eating. I don't go to school anymore, I start home schooling soon, I can feel myself wasting away. I'm too scared to leave my house so I'm always at home and I feel like I'm rarely noticed by anyone anymore. High school is hell for me, I hate everyone there. It ruined me. I think I should die, honestly. The...
April 2012
2 posts
Anonymous asked: So I'm sat here, on a bridge, alone, in the dark. On tumblr on my phone to just tell someone what's going to happen. To let you know what's going to happen because I need to tell someone. Razor blade on the left of me, tissues on the right. I'll slit both my wrists, put tissues on them. And then jump. I can't take this anymore. I can't take being me. I can't take...
Anonymous asked: I'm going to rage to you because I'm angry, So this morning I ask my boyfriend to come out with me seen as the weather is lovely today and all my friends are busy, but he told me he couldn't because he had stuff to do and he was also busy so I was fine with that. And now I've just found out he's in a friends house, a FEMALE friends house watching tv and on video games....
March 2012
9 posts
Anonymous asked: I think my relationship with this guy is going to fast, it has only been a week between when we first kissed and when he has had his hands up my shirt. I am comfortable with this, and he always asks me if I am, but is it too fast? How long did you wait before having sex with your boyfriend? You don't have to answer :3
Anonymous asked: i just moved to a new country and am starting year 11. everyone thinks im weird and act different and act very hesitant towards me and talk about me.. i just want to blend in but everyone looks at me different like im a freak and i hate it.. i just feel so lost and overwhelmed and i dont want to do anything with my life.. i dont even know what im asking you.. continued....
Anonymous asked: i dont even know what im asking you.. just reaching out. i hesitate in telling you this, but you know me in real life. you seem lovely and i dont know where to start so i started anonymously... thank you for listening, sorry it was long.
Anonymous asked: hi.. i dont know where to start. i was sexually abused by my family when i was young and in the past few months i have had flashbacks and nightmares about it.. i was also raped several times by a boyfriend i was with for about a year, and again by a stranger.. ive had depression for several years, have tried ending my life on a few different occasions, cut, gotten into drugs drinking and smoking...
Anonymous asked: how do you deal with the first fight with your boyfriend ? :s
Anonymous asked: I'm really confused, this morning I woke up and my head was on the other side of the bed! How did this happen? My whole world is upside down! My boyfriend won't have sex with me, I caught my brother looking through the key whole when I was showering and I didn't put cheese on my pasta last night! WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE WORLD!?
Anonymous asked: I need your help! Theres this new guy in my class and I've caught him staring at me plenty of times, I think he's really cute! and I want to get to know him, but what should I do? how do you start the conversation...
Anonymous asked: I am too embarrassed to speak to my mum and my boy friend is really worried, but I haven't told him, I went to the doctors and they told me I have chlamydia, I do not know what to do because my mum and my boyfriend don't know. I'm also going through a tough time with this and also pressures from school and it has resulted in me cutting, I did it earlier last year, but stopped...
February 2012
2 posts
January 2012
2 posts
Anonymous asked: im 15 years old and i reallyyy like this guy who is 3 years older than i am, we've never talked to each other but i always catch him staring at me, and once he smiled at me and i smiled back. is this a sign or something? i dont know what is going through his mind but im really shyyy to talk to him, could you help?
Anonymous asked: Im in love with this guy thats 2 years older than me, we always go in the bus to get back home. We go together like in our group where im the youngest, and we all go to smoke and do some cool stuff downtown. However i do not always go, and people say he might like me (like like) cause they say he just acts nicier when im around, but im afraid that its just a cheap illusion, what should i do?
December 2011
13 posts
Anonymous asked: I'm 18 and a lesbian. I live in a quite homophobic country (there are no GSA clubs here). I start to worry that I'll never find any girlfriend, since I'm not convinced to dating sites or something like that:< What should I do?
Anonymous asked: you are always giving out this wonderful advice, do you ever tell people about your problems aswell? we are all here if you need us madi!! on behalf of all the people you have helped: we love you <3
Anonymous asked: -continuation- he told me to go on the pill, but i didnt want to because then mum would think i was having sex with my boyfriend and the boundries would be more strict!! so i lied to my brother, but then if he finds out he'll just get mad! but then i cant go and get an abotian by myself, i just know i wont be able to get through it! but i don't really have anyone close i can talk to!...
Anonymous asked: uhmm.. im not very good at telling my problems to people, but whatever ill give it a try! a couple of weeks ago i got sexually abused by my brother, he doesnt live at home anymore, we havnt seen him in about three years, for one of that year he has been following me everywhere i go (in public) and sexually abusing me, but a couple of weeks ago the condom split and now im pregnant, i cant tell him...
Anonymous asked: i've been secretly struggling with depression for a while and i think i want to try taking medication for it, but i'm afraid to ask my mother about it. i'm not sure how to bring it up, and i'm almost positive she'll think i'm just overreacting and that i'm just being a moody teenager...
Anonymous asked: (continued..) they came round and they ask me questions like what was the last thing she said, what was her problems, what they could of done to help and so on. i just dont know how to handle this at times. im not religious so i know she hasnt gone to heaven or hell, i believe the life of a person ends once they are dead, so i know that she is gone.. and sometimes i just feel that i should join...
Anonymous asked: yesterday: my friend commited suicide, she said it was for the best, and i was the only one who could 'save' her from herself.. i had a shower, and didn't save her, i know deep down that this is not my fault, as sooner or later i would of had to go and do something, and that would of pushed her. but i just can't help but feel guilt, her family know i was the last person she...
Anonymous asked: so i met this guy, through a friend. and everything used to be so 'cute' the conversations were 'normal' and we would just talk, but recently everything has turned sexual... i can't ask him 'how are you?' without some form of cybersex being done, although i go along with it, i just dont know how to stop.. we met up once, and nothing sexual happened. but he wants...
Anonymous asked: I have THE most perfect boyfriend on the East coast of the USA and I really wanna start surprising him with random acts that will make him smile and just build our relationship, make memories. Any ideas?
Anonymous asked: i know your not a doctor or anything but would you know anything about anxiety or panic attacks? sometimes i get hot sweats, shakey, breathless and my heart beats really fast and i feel like i cant sit or stand still. i dont even know why it just happends out of the blue. i cant decide whether its an anxiety or panic attack or something else? not expecting you to know, just thought id ask.
nowiamstronger-deactivated20120 asked: Hi there. I have just started this blog to help those in need. Those who are suffering, undergoing problems, and those who just need someone to talk to. Please spread the word. Or atleast share any of your own stories to show everyone. Or anyone they aren’t alone. Thank you.
Anonymous asked: - don't know what to do about it because none of my friends have noticed, or if they have, they don't seem to either care or want to see if I need to talk about it. My parents know I don't eat much, but they think it's because I have an iron deficiency or something since I am a vegetarian. They keep asking me to have a blood test for it, because they don't understand the...
Anonymous asked: I'm a 14 year old girl, and I think I'm fat. I know I'm not, but I still think I am, if that makes sense. I didn't mean to at first but about a year ago I started eating less and less and I simply said I didn't get hungry easily when people asked why I don't really eat much, but in the last 5 months I've realised that I do get hungry, I just don't eat. I...
November 2011
11 posts
Anonymous asked: I'm basically dating this guy and I wanna lose my virginity to him, but my best friend lose her virginity to him and he goes to different school but like I don't know if that's like morally wrong or something.
Anonymous asked: Okay, so there was this guy. We had sex at a party on the weekend and now I kind of like him, but I'm not looking for a relationship. He wants to get together again and so do I, infact tonight we're sneaking out to see each other. We used to be friends but now I feel like it's just sex no frienship? Am I doing the right thing?
Anonymous asked: this is going to sound very stupid but since you and your boyfriend have had a very successful relationship i might as well say.. i love my boyfriend so much, but im scared that he is going to get bored of me and that i will loose him. how is your relationship so perfect?
Anonymous asked: can i have some help, i like someone that is way out of my league but i can't get them off my mind, please?
Anonymous asked: How can I learn to trust people again?
Anonymous asked: Thank you so much, you're like amazing thank you so much. I know I don't look like that woman, I'm just a little over weight but I'm gonna try to fix that, thank you tho. Today has been such a horrible day at school i hate everyone, and like I saw your post and yeah you made me smile <3 thank you beautiful. I like print screen this to read it when I'm down which will...
Anonymous asked: omg if that mean fat then i'm a good weight :D btw this is different anon
Anonymous asked: So like I'm a girl and I HATE myself like i Hate myself and its mostly the way i look like i'm fat I just hate how I look.but i'm dating a girl and like shes amazing shes like 1238458594 better than me and like she cheated on her ex girlfriend for me and i feel like shes gonna do the same thing with me cause shes a flirt and idk what to do i want to be happy and trust her but im...
Anonymous asked: So my girlfriend and I dated for a month a couple months ago and then she broke up with me. we still talk and i still really like her but i don't know what to do. i told her i like her but she never really responded. What should i do?
Anonymous asked: hey, so i like this guy and we did stuff in the holidays and we havn't spoken since. he deosnt know i like him and he only talks to me if he wants something. It really fucks me in the head :/ what should i do ?
Anonymous asked: So i've got a boyfriend, and we've been really close for years, then we found out we sorta liked eachother. we've been seeing eachother (or basically for us, relationship without the label) for a bit now, but only became official a few weeks ago. the topic of sex has come up and we're both interested. But i dont know, its hard to explain. I want too, no doubt its like my body...
October 2011
4 posts
Anonymous asked: Hey, so me and my boyfriend had sex about 3 weeks ago and it was so special. And now we would like to try new positions, are there any that you could suggest for newbies? Thankyou :)
Anonymous asked: so i'm about to have sex for the first time with my boyfriend but i dont know how to start or how to go with it, do you have any tips? much love, you're amazing! :) xo
